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06-25-2011, 05:46 AM
Been having a couple of crappy days back is aching on and off been sleeping like crap my hips hurt particularly the left one which is the side i sleep best on cant stand lying on my back so i go from one side to the other all night which disturbs DH sleep my DD has been a handful for the last month mainly because of the people she hanging round my mother as usual has no sympathy for me i shouldnt be having and problems yet and my best friend doesnt approve of me being pregnant at my age so i havent been to see her in weeks basically since i told her, actually i saw her once after i told her she didnt mention me being pregnant and i am just not in the mood for that at the moment so havent been back, DH has been amazing with his support, I feel better now thanks for letting me have a sook:bawling:
06-25-2011, 06:17 AM
:hug: Why do people think it's ok to judge others that way? I'm due after you, and quite frankly, I have the same pain in my hips from sleeping on my side. It's always that way for me once I get close to the 2nd trimester, maybe sooner. Maybe these people forgot what it's like? Still. If you say you are having a difficult time sleeping, they should be sympathetic, not critical. And, the friend who thinks you are too old needs to get her head out of her ***. My goodness! There are many benefits to us being "older" moms. More :hug:. I'm glad your dh understands and is supportive. My dh is probably the most supportive person when I'm pregnant. I'd be lost without him.
06-25-2011, 08:11 AM
Well, I'm older than you and I totally approve of you being pregnant at your age. You're 39, not 59, for heaven's sake.
My hips have been a wreck this pregnancy from a very early point, and I'm only lugging one baby around. Of course you're going to feel symptoms much earlier than most pregnant women when you have twins and your friends should be sympathizing with you, not criticizing. I'm really sorry you aren't getting more support in real life. Is there a twins support group in your area? It might help to get in touch with other moms of twins and find out how they got through the pregnancy and hear their advice on surviving the first few months.
06-26-2011, 12:13 PM
That's awful. Who needs judgemental friends?! Ugh I'm sorry you are hurting. I was soooooo sore w/ the 2nd pregnancy. Everything hurt all the time. It sucks that no one shows even an ounce of sympathy. Come here & vent. We all understand!!!!
06-27-2011, 03:51 AM
Thanks guys really apprieciate (didnt spell that right) your kind words and understanding am just concentrating on enjoying feeling my babies kicking and jumping around, the one lying low loves kicking my bladder and cervic at the moment and top one has got her feet up under my ribs at the moment, dont know if there is any support groups around here but have other friends i see so not so bad, school holidays start this weekend so the little ones are gone for two weeks to there mothers so will enjoy the break and also only got a week to wait till my next u/s, By that time susan you should just about be getting busy with your new little one wishing you a easy labor good luck
06-27-2011, 05:01 AM
06-27-2011, 07:32 AM
i think 39 is not old enough to be preggy. I think your friend is just jealous of you.. Godbless on your pregnancy. :)
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